UPDATE: It’s now being reported that Berry was the one who did the dumping—and she did it months ago.

Let’s face it kids: You can try color-coordinating your family all you like, but that won’t necessarily keep you together.

Although they appeared to be the image of perfection, Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry proved once again that pretty people also have a hard time being happy. After four years together, the actress and the model have called it quits.

According to reports, the two have actually been apart for some time and have already begun working on a custody agreement regarding their 2-year-old daughter Nahla. (RadarOnline.com says they’ve “spent months hammering out a deal with a lawyer” while TMZ is claiming Berry “went to a divorce lawyer three weeks ago.”) All sources are claiming, though, that the split appears to be going amicably.

So what could possibly drive those two apart? A source for RadarOnline.com claims there wasn’t any kind of affair - at least not yet. “Gabriel just felt it wasn’t working anymore,” the insider reports. “When they were first together the 9-year age difference between them didn’t phase him, she was the most beautiful woman he had ever dated and he was totally in love.”

“But as time went on he started feeling it more and more,” the source added. “Also, Gabriel started noticing other women, and being attracted to others, and he felt it just wasn’t right to stay with Halle in those circumstances… Gabriel is a really nice, decent guy and he would never cheat on her, but I suspect that he had become attracted to someone and that he felt he needed to break it off with Halle before anything developed any further.”

Attention Jamie Foxx: I believe it’s time to make your move once again.