Even though Rumer Willis is, of course, one of Demi Moore‘s three girls, I’ve only recently started noticing the similarities in their features.

But there’s something that really disturbs me about the following sets of photos. I can’t seem to decide: Is the 19-year-old trying to look like her mother…or is the 45-year-old trying to look like her daughter?

(Demi and Rumer at a Beverly Hills event in February.)

(Rumer and Demi at two separate events this past weekend.)