If there’s one thing I’ve learned from Reese Witherspoon and Jake Gyllenhaal, it’s this: If it’s too cute, it’ll never last.

After nearly three months of dating, country music’s hottest star and Tiger Beat‘s hottest abs couldn’t make their love match last. That’s right - Taylor Swift and Taylor Lautner are now taking their individual names back.

According to sources, the relationship was never really a relationship because it simply lacked chemistry. “It wasn’t really developing into anything, and wasn’t going to, so they decided they were better as friends,” a source claimed.

Unfortunately, the interest level may have been uneven. “[Lautner] liked her more than she liked him,” the insider added. “He went everywhere he could to see her, but she didn’t travel much to see him.”

Let’s just hope the two “plan to stay friends” as reported. They still have their film Valentine’s Day to promote in just a few weeks.