okay I asked out the girl I was dating a couple days before she left for a month. My question is should i have waited till she got back?
also what are the benifits of asking her out before she leaves and when she gets back.

well im no expert..but ive done exactly that before so i can share my own expierence..first off..i asked her out and she said yes and all that stuff and she went of to greece for a month..we kept in touch through email..but when she got back she had a new bf within like a week cuz i hadnt seen her..so either keep in touch really well or you might lose her..and make sure u see her as soon as she gets back..the positive side to this is that as of right now unless she breaks up with you she wont be open for other guys to hit on her..hopefully but you have to prove that your worth it so that she doesnt pick someone else up.. just my 2 cents..
(o and if anybody feels good gimme referals..i have 0/5…

alright thnx alot. Hmmm thats not to good for me haha. Thats what i was afraid of. Damn. Well i guess i will hope for the best. But what everyone tells me is that if she really does like you alot then she will still like you when she gets back because you would be on her mind while she was gone. I dunno im just trying to turn the tables here.

o and umm..if this is the girl ur reffering to http://gearlive.com/forums/viewtopic.php?t=288
then..well ur pretty much screwed..just pray (A LOT)

awww damnit. This sucks alot now. :(

:lol:

Like he said though, keep in touch a lot.

o and umm…if u do break up just give me her email adress and AIM if possible..ill i dunno talk to her or someting :D

yuck…

...slimy

what..im just trying to help him out..

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Like he said though, keep in touch a lot.

haha there is my second opinion lol. awww no positive feedback haha.

gohan>  Don’t sweat it—I’ve learned from experience that if it’s meant to happen it will, otherwise it’s not worth the effort—trust me; there are plenty of women out there and if you don’t treat them like #### the decent ones will stick around

okay good thats a booster. Score now i = unworried.

Some encouragement comin at you from The Lounge.  Who woulda thought.

hahahah no kidding eh?

sounds like what you need in here is a woman’s opinion.  i’ll ask my sister about it

Looking forward to that…

*waits impatiently for reply*

Still waiting, thor.  😛

I wonder if his sister freaked out, and told him to get lost…now he’s too ashamed to come back.  :think:

i have good news! well actually not really but i remembered what happened to my 17 year old friend..he had been dating for like 2 years and was about to marry this girl..they were already planning on it..anyways he went on a 1 month vacation and when he got back they both for some reason decided that they should break up…they just broke up…..

wow this makes me feel so much better. Anyhow her brother came back today and she wrote me a note and he dropped it off. I’m not worrying anymore.

thats cool but ur still a meanie..

Yeah —>  “Get outta here you board-poster!”

how so? cause i wouldnt give you her email? i doubt anyone here would give you their girls email.

its not like i was gonna do anything i just wanted to talk to her…i asked for yours too but u didnt give me that either

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