How long does it take to really know someone?
Posted: 04 August 2004 05:08 AM     [ Ignore ]  
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My wife met my manager’s boss last week and told me she was a sweet kind old lady.  Yeah, and my wife’s not there when she comes over and chews me out, like she just did this morning.  No one shows their true colors until you’ve been with them for a nice extended period of time.  Then there’s no turning back.

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Posted: 04 August 2004 06:07 AM   [ # 1 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 1 ]  
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yeah that happens in alot of cases. I dunno meeting someone once isnt good enough to know someone.

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Posted: 04 August 2004 07:18 AM   [ # 2 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 2 ]  
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in order to really know someone you sorta kinda have to see the worst of them and then settle for the best in them..just my 2 bux

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Posted: 04 August 2004 07:48 AM   [ # 3 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 3 ]  
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Like Gohan said you can’t get to know someone by just meeting them once.

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Posted: 04 August 2004 09:15 AM   [ # 4 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 4 ]  
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beware of the “sweet kind old ladies”.  they’re like smiling crocodiles.

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Posted: 04 August 2004 09:24 AM   [ # 5 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 5 ]  
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I don’t think that you can truely know anyone completely—I think more relationships [personal and work] are based on prior experiences and trust—You can’t say you completely know someone because anyone can change there mind in less than a heartbeat for what seems like no apparent reason—

Basically, what I mean [using this case as an example]

You wife thinks she sweet yadda yadda, because she put on a front for her, however, you know better—Perhaps if she sat there poking your wife with a stick barking orders her opinion would be different.  Anyone understand this?

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Posted: 04 August 2004 09:35 AM   [ # 6 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 6 ]  
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[quote author=“munkyxtc”]Perhaps if she sat there poking your wife with a stick barking orders her opinion would be different.  Anyone understand this?

Hey yeah, man.  Let her work here and attend meetings with her and she’ll see it.  She didn’t interact with her as a “staff” but as an aquaintance.

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Posted: 04 August 2004 09:48 AM   [ # 7 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 7 ]  
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3 words buddy..digital audio recorder ^_^

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Posted: 04 August 2004 09:56 AM   [ # 8 ]     [ Ignore ]   [ # 8 ]  
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[quote author=“Nijado”]3 words buddy..digital audio recorder ^_^

Hehe, yeah really.  You would think that I would have one of those handy.  Best I got is a digi-cam.

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