UPDATE: Although she doesn’t deny her previous comments, Kendra has since apologized to Hef for any hurtful remarks she may have made.

Now that Kendra, Holly and Bridget have all moved out of the Playboy Mansion, we are finally starting to learn a bit more about their lives behind those closed doors. Surprisingly, it wasn’t always about parties, joint movie nights or games of Monopoly with Hugh Hefner. It also wasn’t about treating the place like a hotel.

Despite all the group outings we’ve grown used to seeing on The Girls Next Door, newly engaged Kendra Wilkinson claimed she actually didn’t see the Playboy founder that often. “Besides the nights we went out, I only saw Hef, like, once a day walking through the halls to his office. There were never solo dates,” the 23-year-old said.

And while she did admit to having intimate moments with the 82-year-old, Wilkinson also confessed to having fun on the sly. “I had to have sex every now and then, so I had to kind of sneak it.” But the same could not be said for faithful roomie Bridget Marquardt. “Bridget told me that she’s been faithful all these years, and I was like, ‘How the hell can you do that?’ I had to have [sex] so I could feel my age, like a healthy human being,” she said.

As liberal as Hefner may seem, the girls also had to trade in a few freedoms for their free room and board. Not only were they not allowed to come and go as they please (their departures and entrances were logged in a book that Hugh checked daily), the girls - who were given a $1,000 weekly allowance - were not allowed to have jobs or spend holidays away. “I hate putting my hand out, but we couldn’t have jobs other than getting appearance fees,” Kendra revealed.

But in the end, there is no ill will whatsoever between Wilkinson and Hefner. “Hef was kind of like my best friend, but a sugar daddy at the same time ... Hef made me feel beautiful.” As it stands, Kendra and her fiancee, Philadelphia Eagles wide receiver Hank Baskett, plan to marry at the mansion next summer.